Kana Grinch ikatora Kisimusi, denda iri rinotitadzisa kupemberera zvizere mamwe mazororo echando. Zvinozoitika kuti iyi inguva yekumirira. Sekureva kwekurudziro dzehurumende dzichangoburwa, kufamba kwezororo hakukurudzirwi, uye kuungana kwedhijitari kunoita senzira yakangwara yekubatana neshamwari nemhuri.
Kana muchida kuita mutambo wenyu wekutepfenyura, ndapota yeukai chimwe chinhu chekuteerera. Uye sezvo mabhuku eEmily Posts asingataure nezvezviitiko zvepamhepo, takataura nemadzimai mana evaenzi tikavapa nzira dzakanakisisa dzekuita mapati ezvinwiwa zvedhijitari, nguva dzejamu uye kuravira waini. Chirebvu, pasi kumusoro, uye rambai muchiverenga.
Semugadziri wezviitiko, anozivikanwa nemaitiro ake e "kuwedzera simba kaviri". Kwenguva yakareba, Gardner ave achipa zvekushandisa kune vanoronga mapati vanotsvaga kugadzira husiku husingakanganwiki. Pfungwa dzake dzinosanganisira mapatani emapatani, maruva asingaperi uye kutamba. Mumatsutso ano, akavhura chitoro chake chepamhepo chemba nemapati, kwaunogona kuwana zvese zvaanofarira - mitsara yechiPutukezi, magirazi eMurano uye magadget engowani dzepepa kuti unakidzwe zvakanyanya. Heano maitiro akanakisa aGardner.
Ndinofunga zvakanaka kuti vanhu vari kuungana pasi rese vari kufunga nezvenzira dzekuenderera mberi netsika yezororo. Zvisinei, ndinotya kukokwa kuti nditore chikamu muzviitiko zvepaindaneti. Pane matambudziko ehunyanzvi, wobva wagara pamberi pekombuta kuti udye wonzwa kutya. Ndinokurudzira kuti kuungana uku kuve kupfupi uye kunonakidza, asi kwakafanana nekurangarirwa. Wadii kubatana neshamwari nemhuri pakugadzirira kudya kwemanheru uye pakuita mabiko epanguva yekurara?
Ronga menyu yakakosha, kurudzirai kubika pamwe chete, uye rongai mafona maviri eZoom panguva yakatarwa usati wadya uye wapedza kudya. Rongai kwemaminitsi makumi matatu musati madya uye gare gare manheru kuitira kuti musakanganise kudya kwenyu.
Paperless Post ine mhando yese yemapati epamhepo. Unogona kuisa link ye "zoom" murugwaro. Ndinoda sarudzo dziri mumufananidzo weHappy Menocal (akagadzirawo makadhi emenyu akanaka echitoro changu).
Tave tichitarisa nzvimbo imwe chete kwemwedzi yakati wandei uye kushongedza matafura inzira yakanaka yekugadzira nzvimbo yemitambo. Odha maruva! Deredzai mwenje! Pfekai zvakanaka! Regedzai rambi! Kunyangwe boka racho riri diki sei, musarega chero chinhu chichikanganisa tafura yenyu. Munogona kuratidza kushongedza kwenyu panguva yekufona kweZoom, asi ndapota musashandise "photogenic background" kunze kwekunge yakanyanyisa uye ichityisa.
Ndiri mudzidzi waPriya Parker (akanyora kuti “The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Mains”). Mugamuchiri anofanira kugara achiziva nezvechiitiko chacho, zvisinei nemaitiro acho. Iyi inzira yekuita kuti basa rive nerevo.
Gore rino, chinhu chikuru kuronga pachine nguva uye kuita zvese zvinodiwa, nekuti mafoni eZoom anoshandiswa pamisangano yebhizinesi. Pfeka ngowani yemusango, nhetembo dzerudo dzinobata, kana kurega vana vachiimba nziyo dzinonakidza. Wedzera mapancake. Tumira masiki epati nengowani, kana aya makuki epati, ane zvishongo zvemapfekero, uye mutambo unonakidza wekamuri rekutandarira wakaita sekuti "Ita seuri kunyungudutsa munhu wechando", zvinonakidza chaizvo. Ehe, hama dzako dzinogona kuita izvi dzichifara.
Kupinda kudya kwemanheru kwaAeron Lauder ndiko kudzidza hunyanzvi hwetsika dzakanaka. Mugadziri wemifananidzo akagara nhaka chiono chaambuya vake chekugadzira nemaitiro emagariro evanhu akagovana huchenjeri hwake mubhuku idzva rinonzi "Rizzoli". Akati varaidzo inofanira kunge iri nyore uye inonakidza, kunyangwe iri kofi yevanhu vaviri vakarara pamubhedha kana kuvaraidza nhengo dzemhuri dzepedyo pakudya kwemanheru. Maitiro akanakisa aLauder ndeaya anotevera.
Nzira yakanakisisa yekuita chiitiko chepamhepo ndeyekuchengetedza zvakavanzika uye zvakavanzika. Kana tikadzidza chimwe chinhu panguva ino, ndinofunga kuti uku ndiko kukosha kwekutarisisa zvakadzama. Ndinoda kunwa tii yemasikati neshamwari nemhuri. Iyi inzira yakanaka yekupedzisa zuva.
Handigoni kunyepa, handisati ndiri munhu akakodzera kushandisa Zoom, vanakomana vangu vangangofanira kundibatsira kuronga chiitiko ichi. Asi ikozvino zvinoita senzvimbo yakanaka yekutaurirana, kuungana pamwe nekugadzira ndangariro itsva.
Kuti muwane tii yemasikati, ndinokurudzira kuti mugadzirire zvese zvamunoda - seti yenyu yetii, shuga nemukaka. Ndanga ndichishandisa Ginori 1735 Granduca tea series yangu nguva pfupi yadarika. Ndinogarawo ndine vhasi diki rakazara nemaruva nendiro yakazara nechokoreti yakasanganiswa ye edelweiss. Ndanga ndichishandisa vhasi redu idzva reLattea munguva yese yekuvharirwa nekuti rakagadzirwa negirazi uye rinotaridzika zvakanaka munzvimbo chero ipi zvayo. Zvadaro, ndinokurudzira kuti muvise mvura musati matanga chiitiko kuitira kuti munakirwe zvizere nenguva nevaenzi venyu. Munogona kutaura navo pachine nguva, kuitira kuti pasave nemunhu ari mukicheni panguva yekufona.
Ndiri wekare uye ndinogara ndichida kukokwa mumaemail, asi pazviitiko zvepamhepo, kukokwa kwedhijitari kunoita sekunge kwakakodzera. Ndinoda kugadzira kukokwa kwedhijitari kwakagadzirirwa vanhu kuti vafare nezvechiitiko ichi. Ndinoda kushanda nevapendi vemifananidzo yakaita seHappy Menocal, Kinshippress naClementina kuti vaenzi vanzwe sevanhu vakaitwa nemaoko uye vakakosha.
Ndichiri kujaira kuita zvinhu zvepamhepo uye kudzidza nzira dzakanakisisa, asi ndinofunga kuva nekwakatangira kwakanaka uye kunokwezva ndiko kunonyanya kukosha. Pose pandinenge ndiine vaenzi kumba, ndinoda kuti vanzwe vakasununguka uye vanakirwe. Saka, chinangwa changu ndechekugadzira nzvimbo yepamhepo inoenderana nepfungwa iyi. Paunenge uchigadzirira mabiko etii, ndinokukurudzira kuti udzore kombiyuta kubva muimba yekutandarira kana mukicheni. Isa laptop patafura yepadivi, unogona zvakare kuisa matii pairi.
Zvisinei nezvinoitika, kubata nguva kunokurudzirwa nguva dzose. Tine zvakawanda zvekuita kumba, saka tinokutendai nenguva yamunogona kupinda.
Pose pandinenge ndichivaraidza, hurukuro dzinonakidza uye dzinonakidza dzakakosha kuti manheru afare, saka zvakakosha kuti munhu wese ataure. Ichi ndicho chimwe chezvikonzero nei ndichida kuita zviitiko zvidiki uye zvepedyo. Ndinofunga zvakakosha kuti utaure zvakananga nevaenzi vako uye uvaite kuti vanzwe vakasiyana. Ndinogara ndichida kuunza nyaya dzangu nendangariro muzviitiko zvangu kuti vaenzi vanzwe vari pamba. Unodawo kuti vaenzi vako vakwanise kutaurirana nevamwe.
Ndinogara ndichiti semugamuchiri, kuzorora nekunakidzwa zvakakosha, nekuti vaenzi vachatevera muenzaniso wako. Ndinofunga izvi zvichiri kushanda.
Ndinowanzo chengetedza maminetsi makumi mana nemashanu kuti ndiite izvi, asi chero zvodini, zvichapera zvega. Mukuona kwangu, vaenzi vanowanzo dzidza kubva pane zviratidzo zvinopera.
Ndinogara ndichida kusiya chipo chidiki panzvimbo yekudyira yemunhu wese. Izvi ndizvo zvandakadzidza kubva kuna ambuya vangu Estee Lauder. Kuti ndirambe ndichiita tsika iyi, zvingave zvakanaka kutumira chipo chidiki kune vese vaenzi, kungave kubatidza makenduru panguva yechiitiko, midziyo yekubikira zvinwiwa mubhawa, kana kunyange napkin yemonogram. AERIN yakabatanawo neSocial Studies munguva pfupi yapfuura, iyo inopa zvinodiwa kuti uise matafura ese akanaka pamusuwo wako. Ndinoda pfungwa yekuti muenzi wese anogamuchira ndiro dzakafanana, napkin, magirazi, nezvimwewo kuti agadzire chiitiko chakabatana zvakanyanya.
Chinonyanya kukosha, semugamuchiri wezviitiko, unofanira kuzvichengeta zviri nyore uye zvichinakidza. Vagamuchiri vezviitiko vanowanzoedza kuita kuti zvive zvakakwana, izvo zvisiri nyore kukwezva kutariswa kwevanhu. Zvimwe zvezviitiko zvakanakisa zvandakaita hazvina kurongeka uye zviri nyore. Estee Lauder aigara achiti: “Chero bedzi zvichitora nguva, zvese zvichava zvakanaka.” Mashoko aya achiri kukodzera nyika yanhasi yepaindaneti.
Semuvambi weVirtual With Us, Alex Schrecengost akaronga mapurogiramu anotarisa waini kuti vashandi pamwe chete mubhizinesi neshamwari vafare pamwe chete. Vatengi vake vanotangira pamakambani eFortune 500 kusvika kumasangano makuru asingabatsiri anogadzira mapati emanheru. Vaenzi vake vese vachagamuchira waini yakaputirwa mumabhodhoro newaini yakafanana chiitiko chisati chaitika, uye vozopinda kuti vataure manheru anofadza uye vawane mukana wekudzidza nezvewaini yavanonwa. Heano maitiro akanakisa eSchrecengost.
Isu tinoshandisa Zoom. Iri nyore kushandisa uye ine mukana mudiki wekudzidza kune avo vasingaizive. Chaunongoda ilaptop (kana kunyange nharembozha) uye chiedza chakanaka kuti ugone kuona zviso zvakanaka zvemunhu wese.
Munogona kutumira runyorwa rwezvinhu zvamunotenga kuti muwane waini dziri nyore kuwana, kana dziri nani, ndapota tishandisei! Tinogadzira runyorwa rwewaini dzese, doro, zvinwiwa zvinonwiwa uye zvinwiwa (kofi/tii) mukati. Ndinoshanda pamwe chete nevanotengesa, vanotenga kunze kwenyika uye vadyidzani vedu munyika yese kuti tiwane zvigadzirwa zvakasiyana, uye ndinoda kukutumirai.
Tinokurudzira kufonera sommelier. Tinoda kuti vaenzi vedu vanzwe vakasununguka newaini uye kuti vadzidze munzvimbo ine kuzvikudza, yakaoma kana inotonga. Kana uri kuita mabiko ewaini kumba uye usingakwanise kuwana masevhisi e sommelier, unogona kutora chinzvimbo che sommelier woverenga nhoroondo yekokoreti yauri kunwa, kana kutora chikamu mukutsanangurwa kwenyanzvi ye sommelier yekuravira waini.
Chokwadi chakaratidza kuti awa imwe chete ndiyo nguva yakanakisisa, kunyange zvazvo kana munhu wese aine nguva yake, achagara kwenguva yakareba, tinokurudzira izvi zvechokwadi.
Chinhu chakanakisa nezvewaini ndechekuti zvinobatanidza vanhu zviri nyore sei. Zviri nyore kwazvo kubatanidza waini nehurukuro, saka tinotaura nezvechikafu netsika dzechivanhu kuti munhu wese ave akapfava uye anonakidza. Pamusoro pezvo, vanhu vanofarira nyaya dzakanaka nenyaya dzewaini yavanonwa, saka vakagovana mamwe mazano nezvenzvimbo yewaini kana mhuri ine nzvimbo yewaini.
Kungofanana nekupinda chero pati, ndapota ongororai manzwiro emunhu wese uye edzai kuita kuti munhu wese avhure kamera. Izvi zvinoshandura mamiriro emusangano wese uye zvinobatsira kuti munhu wese ataurirane. Rongai musangano unonakidza wekuzadza munhu wese nemamiriro ekunze anofadza, akadai se: ndeapi mabasa anonyanya kupenga anoitwa nevanhu panguva yeCOVID, kana chirongwa chavanodada nacho, kunyangwe chiri kubatikana nekushanda nekudzidza. Zvakare, kutamba! Kana musina chokwadi, ndapota itai kuti chinakidze. Kana munhu wese akagona kuseka pamwe chete, saka munhu wese achanakidzwa.
Kusiyana nematafura eresitorendi, tine pfungwa yekuziva kuti zvinopera riini. Chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuti unzwe kana imba yako iri paIndaneti uye kuti vanhu vachiri kutaura here kana kuti vari kutaurirana here, kana kuti vari kutaridzika vakaneta.
Unogona kutaura nevaenzi vako kuti vave nechokoreti nechizi vodyawo. Girazi rewaini rakanyatsoenderana rinogara richinakidza.
Semumwe wevakatanga Club Club Global, Solano anotungamira zviitiko zvevhiki nevhiki papuratifomu yeTwitch inotepfenyura mhenyu. Chiratidziro chake chakaratidza matarenda akasiyana-siyana, anosanganisira DJ spinning, kuita kwevaimbi, kuverenga nhetembo, uye vhidhiyo art. Club House Global yakazvarwa munguva yedenda kutsigira nzira iyo maDJ nevaimbi vasingakwanise kutaurirana nevateereri nenzira yechinyakare. Club House Global kirabhu inogamuchira munhu wese. Maitiro akanakisa aSolano ndeaya anotevera:
Zvinoshamisa! Chinonakidza pane zvese izvi ndechekuti kuteedzera kunogona kuitwa zvakasununguka kana kunatsiridzwa sezvaunoda, nerubatsiro rwakakura!
Unogona kushandisa mapuratifomu akawanda ekutamba mhenyu. Twitch yakanaka nekuda kwekugona kwayo kubvumira kutaurirana panguva chaiyo, kugadzira mitambo yemavhidhiyo pachirongwa chako, uye kukuratidza nharaunda yakakura iripo pakutamba mhenyu. Pamusoro pezvo, kana ikanyanya kushata, zviri nani! Nyika yeTwitch inokurudzira maitiro epedyo, asina kudzokororwa. Izvi zvinotibatsira kukwezva vateereri uye kuita kuti pati ive inokwezva kwavari.
Kune akawanda maapplication ekutepfenyura mhenyu, muchada WiFi yakanaka uye mudziyo une kamera yakabatana. Vanhu vazhinji vanofunga kuti danho rinotevera riri nyore sekudzvanya bhatani rekuti "mhenyu". Zvisinei, zvichienderana nehukuru hwechirongwa, zvinogona kuoma. Kana uri DJ kana muiti wepurogiramu, unowanzo kuda audio interface, senge GoMixer kana iRig. Uye zvakanaka kuisa nekudzidza OBS (Open Broadcast Software). Kana uchida kuwana super technology, sesu tiri paClub House Global, muchada ma converter etekinoroji akaita semuvambi wangu Patrick Struys. Kana muine live chat (ingave paTwitch, IG Live, Facebook kana Youtube Live), mungangoda moderator anogona kuona kuti convo inoramba ichishanda uye yakakodzera. Mubatsiri wangu wechitatu uye mugadziri mukuru Anjali Ramasunder kuCHG inyanzvi munzvimbo iyi. Tose tinopfeka ngowani dzakawanda, nekuti nzvimbo yekutepfenyura mhenyu iri kumadokero, unoda maoko ako ese padheki.
Unogona kushandisa maitiro akafanana eIRL paunenge uchironga kusimudzira kufambiswa kwemashoko ako. Gadzira mapepa ekushambadza, isa ruzivo pasocial media, wobva watumira ruzivo kuburikidza nemapepanhau, misoro yemashoko, nezvimwewo. Paunenge uchisarudza kuti unoda kuti vhidhiyo itange riini, funga nezvenguva yevateereri uye kuti dzimwe nhepfenyuro dziripo dzinoitika riini. Uye usakanganwa kuwedzera chinongedzo chakananga kunhepfenyuro yako!
Kuongororwa kwenhepfenyuro mhenyu kunochinja-chinja uye hazvigone kufungidzirwa. Ichi chinhu chaunofanira kujaira. Hazvishande sechiitiko cheIRL. Vanhu vanongoerekana vaonekwa vozodzokera kunhepfenyuro yako. Mamwe maitiro anotora maawa maviri, mamwe maawa makumi maviri nemana. Zvinoenderana nebandwidth yako uye zvinangwa zvako zvekutepfenyura. Semuenzaniso, unoda kuunganidza mari here? Kana kungogara neshamwari? Une maDJ/vaimbi gumi vari kugadzirira kuita rimwe awa yega yega, kana kuti muri vaviri here? Dzimwe nguva, nzira yakanakisa yekuona kuti chii chakakunakira ndeyekuyedza!
Kana wangowana vateereri, kungave muimba yako yemisangano yeZoom kana papuratifomu yeruzhinji, unoda kugamuchira munhu wese. Udza vateereri zvavari kugadzirisa, uye vape mepu yechirongwa. Yeuka, vanhu vachasvika panguva dzakasiyana, uye zvakanaka kubvuma.
Kana mumwe munhu ari pamaikorofoni, vateereri varipo ndivo vanonyanya kuita chimwe chinhu. Kunyanya kana uchitaura zvakananga nechat, kupindura mibvunzo, kupa mhinduro pamimhanzi iri kuridzwa, nezvimwewo. Funga nezvazvo sepodcast iri pamoyo. Munhu akanaka anokupa hurukuro achaita kuti unzwe sekunge uri vanhu vaviri chete mukamuri. Vateereri vachanyaradzwa, saka vazhinji vekutaurirana vachave vari muchat. Iva akagadzirira kugamuchira mhinduro uye usateerere chero mashoko asina kunaka.
Nzira yakanakisisa yekuona kuti vateereri vako vanonakidzwa ndeyekuona kuti unonakidzwa. Simba rinopararira, uye ikozvino wava mukuru wepfungwa. Hauzokwanisi kuona vateereri vako, saka unogona kugara uchibvunza kana hurukuro yacho ichifadza. Kana vateereri vanyatsobatana newe, vanozova vateveri. Saka ramba uchitaurirana newe!
Kazhinji, usati watanga kutepfenyura, unofanira kunge uine nguva yakaoma yekutepfenyura mhenyu. Kunyanya kana uchida kusimudzira chirongwa pachine nguva. Pamusoro pezvo, kana uchironga kuramba uchitepfenyura kuti uwane vateereri paindaneti, unoda kutepfenyura midhiya panguva imwe chete neawa imwe chete pasvondo.
Zvakazara! Unofanira kugara uchitenda vateereri nekupinda, kunyanya kana uchida kuti vadzoke kuzotepfenyura mhenyu kunotevera. Zvakare, shandisa tsika imwecheteyo yeIRL pakutumira mameseji ekutenda kuburikidza nesocial media, tsamba dzenhau kana mameseji. Dana vanhu vakavimbika kumafambiro eruzivo rwako uye simbisa nharaunda yako yedhijitari.
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